Do You Want a Second Chance?

If you want to put your marriage back on track there are numerous steps you can take. Have a look at today’s three tips for saving your marriage today.

In order to get back together with your ex girlfriend, there are numerous steps to take. Here are some of the tips that you should keep in mind when working through this process.

*    Don’t Forget to Talk: Keep the communication lines open. Try to avoid ignoring each other and remain civil. You may have issues but look at the bigger picture – after all this is the person you chose to spend the rest of your life with.  By keeping things in perspective and ensuring you keep talking there is every chance that you can put things right.

*   Talk About the Right Things! There’s no need for you to communicate every insecurity to your partner or relay to them all those reasons that you’re feeling sorry for yourself right now. Instead choose a friend to confide in so that you are not wallowing in negativity within your marriage.  Try to avoid being needy or negative with your spouse and keep your communication upbeat.

*    Try to Move Forward: If you have got into good habits with your communication you should get to the point when it’s comfortable to talk about the problem areas within your marriage. At some point you both need to sit down and analyze what went wrong with your relationship. Were both of your needs being met? Did you feel appreciated? Are there things either of you say or do that cause hurt to the other? Once you know what the causes of your problems are it’s the first them to rectifying them and saving your marriage.

Does your Behavior Push your Partner Away?

Every marriage has it's cracks. Sometimes however these begin the shatter the relationship and it can take a concerted effort to get your love back.

If you are reading this blog then you are no doubt serious about rekindling your relationship. However, sometimes, for all our efforts, we can be working against our aim rather than towards it.

Don't Score an 'Own Goal'

There are times when your anxiety to improve things could actually be having the opposite affect and driving your spouse away.

As you crank up your efforts to get closer, their natural reaction might be to take a step back. Take time to think about how you might inadvertently be piling on the pressure by:

-       calling them throughout the day,

-       constantly sending them e-mails and text messages,

-       trying to make them feel sorry for you.

Don't Overpower Your Partner

These behaviors backfire and whilst actioned out of concern or by a need to feel closer, they are likely to feel a little overpowering to the recipient.

Have a think about the amount of contact you have with your partner. Could it be a little too intense? Is it at a level that they are comfortable with?

Today's blog tip is to take time to reflect up on the way that you try to get close to your spouse. Could you be overdoing it and doing more harm than good?